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Grace or Nice

10/17/2014

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Today during a conversation with my son, I was confronted with a great theological question: do we mistake grace for niceness?
Context: my son is in kindergarten and receives a daily behavioral sheet which lets parents know how they did.  Pink is the best, Blue is next, Green is neutral, Yellow means a comment from the teacher, and Red means the teacher needs to talk to the parent.  When asked what color he got, my son stated that everyone in the class got blue except for two students, a boy and a girl, who ended the day on yellow, but "[a girl] went home with blue because [the teacher] was nice, but she should have had yellow."
Here, he equated the teacher's grace to niceness.  Is grace (unmerited favor) nice?  When we reflect on God's grace, does that make God nice?  Does that mean that when grace is not received it is mean?
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Nancy S
10/18/2014 03:05:15 am

Not sure that "nice" is grace. Forgiveness is a far cry from ignoring or overlooking misbehavior. If the misdeed is recognized as a bad thing, a misstep, by the doer, and if an effort is made to change behavior, or at least to acknowledge the misstep--and the that's forgiveness or even grace. If the misstep is deliberate, intentional, destructive and the doer is not repentant, a "nice" person might not make it an issue, but is that an example of grace? My question: are humility and repentance necessary for grace to be part of our relationship with God?

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